Americans are spenders, not savers. Everywhere you look we are buying and spending. We believe we need all of these “things” to make us happy but this is not true. Unfortunately, the one thing we really need in our lives is financial security and very few of us have attained it. This is as good a time as any to refocus on our “wants” versus our “needs” and form a solid definition of each. Once that is accomplished, maybe we can begin to address our inability to save and start to correct that situation.
Consider trashing many of those catalogs we all receive in the mail. The main purpose of these catalogs is to show us what each company can provide to improve our world in one way or another. Maybe it’s time we start spending our time doing things we enjoy, such as going for walks or visiting with friends, rather than looking through catalogs at items we don’t need and can’t afford.
When you are tempted to make a purchase based on the justification that you deserve the item, try visualizing a month without a credit card bill or making an extra savings deposit to your account.
Choose an extravagance that will make you feel good. Also, begin evaluating those that are really not necessary in your life. Everyone needs a treat regularly, so choose what you want yours to be.
Consider changing your lifestyle to adjust to both the economy and your new habit of saving money. Instead of a night out at the movies, rent one and invite friends over. You might be surprised at how much they, too, will enjoy an evening’s entertainment that easily fits the budget.
Hold family meetings to discuss the spending plan that will enable everyone to save more. Consider what sacrifices can be made that will result in additional savings. Working towards a common goal will be good for everyone.
Discussing your finances with others is very good therapy. Many people keep their money problems a secret but reality is that most of us have them and sharing them with another makes them easier to deal with them.
